What to ask?

Dear Connector,

When I decide I want to connect with the unseen world, or when a connection starts to happen spontaneously, there are 6 basic questions I use, depending on the exact circumstances.

1) What is the dimension where you reside? The answers to this can be quite varied as you’ve seen reading the examples I’ve shared so far. With this question, I’m trying to establish their range of frequency as well as the realm they reside in, these are related of course.

If instead I’ve been contacted by an unknown being or I’ve encountered them in spiritual journeying, this question helps me feel their quality of light and and frequency to determine if I want to continue the connection. Here I might learn that they are from another time in history or another dimension altogether.

Not all beings identify as living within clearly designated dimensions but the question can be followed with others such as, “Are you in service to the Light and Love of God.” So this is a question to be followed with other questions to establish if there’s integrity and light.

2) What is your name from your last incarnation? This is asked if I know they’ve had a human life. If I don’t know that, I might instead first ask, “Have you had a human incarnation?”

With this question I’m establishing identity. So I generally ask how they identify themselves. Verifying a name is one way of beginning this. Sometimes the name is a sound instead, or a vibrational feeling.

Instead of a name you might get an answer such as, “I am a spirit of water… you can think of me as like a waterfall fairy but I am not a water deva of a particular singular waterfall. I am an earth spirit for large tumbling waters.”

3) Describe the atmosphere or environment where you presently exist, define one law that rules that dimension. This question continues to establish who, what and where and serves to further the dialogue as you assess their frequency. You are getting a feeling for this being now, becoming more familiar with them.

I ask for a “law” or a defining principle of their realm because I’ve come to see that the question yields interesting things that broaden the scope of who/what I’m dealing with. It shows the level of integrity of the realm, and what the guiding principles are.

4) What is your/the purpose there, and your purpose with me now? The same goes for this question, it moves us farther into dialogue and familiarity. I ask for their larger purpose where they reside and I ask why they’ve come to me. Especially if it’s not someone I’ve sought out, this is when I’m likely to ask, “Why have you contacted me?” You can see the usefulness of this to understand what we might do together. This helps me establish Why and What.

As the questions now must make apparent, I’m basically establishing Who, When, Where, What and Why. If a being shows up in a session with a client, I am asking these things in my mind and the purpose of their coming - the“Why” - is especially important to understand.

5) What is your present job or duty if you have one there? This is a question that expands on the one above. In the spirit realms beings generally have assignments. Learning more about this is useful and interesting.

6) What is the most important thing for me to hear from you today? Do you have a message for me today? (Or for the client, if that is the case.) The interest in this question is obvious, but as with all these questions, remember it’s not just a short Q & A. It’s a dialogue. So receive, but also be a participant… consider what’s been said and ask more questions if you like. Share your thoughts, seek clarification, be curious, be engaged.

Once you’ve established it’s a useful or desirable exchange for you, be open and receptive. And be a participant, not just a petitioner. Engage in dialogue instead of just receiving. Express doubts, ask for examples, ask them to clarify what is being said, and so forth.

There are other questions one can use of course. The point is to invite you to think about ways to establish if there’s integrity and to learn the Who, Where, What, How and Why of the connection so you know how to proceed. And to feel their bio-signature so you can recognize it when you wish to dialogue with them again.

These questions give a structure to your thinking and receiving so the Ego is less likely to take the upper hand. Your own agendas are then less apt to influence the outcome. And above all remember to set doubt aside if you think nothing is coming. You are receiving as asked, even if there are no words. Feel what is occurring too and give it credence.

It is useful to keep a journal of your contacts. As with dreaming, practice and tracking make things open up so leaps forward in your abilities can happen quickly. It’s also very fun to look back at what you’ve written in a dialogue with spirit. There’s always more there than you thought at the time, always!

I hope February’s five part series, Messages from Beyond, has been fun and useful for you; it’s so fun to commune with those in the unseen worlds! And as I said in part one, it’s very timely just now - something wonderful is happening in this regard.

Happing communing,
Mayet